
It
all started easy enough. It was a simple encounter at a spiritual workshop that
changed the fabric and nature of my being and life. I had come to the Waking
Down Weekend after spending an amazing weekend with the founder of the Waking
Down in Mutuality (WDM) Saniel Bonder. His approach to embodied heart-centered
spiritual awakening had fascinated me from the moment I had heard about it. He
promised enlightenment in this lifetime. After more than 20 years of actively
seeking this elusive thing called “enlightenment”- a weekend was
worth finding a new path to my goal. Our workshop with Saniel was simple yet
profound. A new part of me came home and I knew that I wanted more.
With a few colleagues, I contacted a local WDM teacher and made plans for
a Seattle workshop later in the year. I approached it with anticipation and a
whole host of other emotions that seemed to have control over me. I was told
that this was part of the awakening process, that the Waking Down weekend and
being in the transmission of consciousness in it would help me. It did that and
much more.
Reunited with an old friend
At this event, I met a man, a man I knew instantly as an old friend and mentor.
It struck me as odd with all of the signals my body and soul were giving me about
this man that he should be here with us mere seekers. I knew in an instant- one
of those moments when whole scenes and lifetimes roll before you in the blink
of an eye- that I had found my teacher again. I saw myself in
multiple past lives- in battles, schools, and monasteries- always as his student.
And I loved him, which my rational mind was freaking out about. It kept saying, “how
can you love this man, you don’t even know him?” It was the kind
of love that transcends lifetimes… the kind of love that men have after
sharing and surviving the heat of battle, the kind of devotional love that students
have for their beloved gurus. It was so strong. But, I had to be cool.
I asked Ken for his phone number and if he would like to share a pot of tea
sometime. He said yes. At our meeting at Seattle’s historic Panama Hotel
Tea Room, I shared with him my observations. He looked at me as if I were odd.
It occurred to me that I could have been wrong, but just shirked it off. We shared
small talk and went our separate ways. Two weeks later the phone rings and it
is Ken, asking me if I was alright, that he had had a dream about a small black
girl hovering between life and death. I shared that I was OK and that I had been
having a hard time through what they call “The Rot” in WDM. It is
the sometimes very difficult period of soul and life review just prior to achieving
a heart-centered awakening. The night before Ken’s call, I did feel in
some way like I was hovering between the worlds, not knowing if I could withstand
the near constant images and cellular memories of women being beaten and raped;
and of people being enslaved and death marched. None of this was a part of my
current life history, but somewhere in the dark recesses of my DNA it was there
and coming out in torrents of emotions and visions. I was exhausted.
Remembering
After thanking Ken for his call, he revealed himself to me. He had “read” my
soul and found that I was a “renaissance woman”. He also told me
that he had remembered 9 lifetimes that we had shared on many continents and
then began to tell me about them in detail. I came to know that this level of
specificity was what I could always expect from him. He asked if I wanted to
have coffee. I said, “Yes, of course.”
We met a few days later at a Starbucks near my sacred and beloved Lake Washington.
That day began a journey that would change my life forever. We sat with the sun
streaming through the window and began to share. We were at once in Seattle at
the turn of the millennium; and sitting in a 19th century monastery as high level
Oracles for the spiritual leader of Tibet; and simultaneously sitting on the
edge of the planet’s atmosphere surveying all of life and beyond. We would
jump from place to place and encompass it all at the same time. I could feel
myself as this young and ambitious monk, keeping his teacher- the head Oracle
on his toes. It was true. I had found my teacher again. It was thrilling. He
had come to the WDM Weekend out of “boredom” and to find me.
Our regular meetings usually started at 10:00 or 11:00 am and went most of
the day. We would share and Ken would offer me some guidance and support. I did
have the coveted “second birth” heart-centered awakening as promised
by Saniel Bonder and the WDM community. I could feel this energy coursing through
my veins unlike anything that I had ever felt before. Colors were brighter, there
was this felt sense of connection with everything, finally melting into a feeling
and knowing that I am everything and everything is me. It felt as though the
life that I had come here to lead was only just beginning. I had found myself.
And it was the beginning. What transpired from there over the next year is truly
the stuff of legends.
Awakening
Whole new worlds opened themselves to me. I was visited by gods, goddesses, angels
and demons alike. I spontaneously began remote-viewing and sensing deeper into
people’s souls. New healing energies would show up or Ken would initiate
me into an energetic lineage and I would have it at mastery level almost immediately.
Once, I felt something pop in my energy field and began vomiting to the point
of dry heaves over and over again. When the retching stopped, I fell back on
the bathroom floor, head next to the toilet in a state of the most sublime bliss
I had ever experienced. At times I could vividly see people’s past
lives and even hear their thoughts as they were dying. I began to instinctively
know how to heal people emotionally, where the energies were blocked in their
energy fields. The siddhis – psychic and spiritual gifts that
come as a result of awakening, were coming rapidly.
There were and continue to be long “moments” spent in the most
glorious sense of grace and spaciousness; and times when a feeling of deep and
abiding peace would just descend upon me. It was pretty amazing, at times overwhelming.
I was growing and changing so fast that I often felt disoriented. If I did not
have Ken I would have thought that I was going crazy. He provided for me a steady
sounding board and guidance, healing energies, new information and inspiration… at
once friend, guide and mentor. An enlightened shaman of profound power and grace,
this unassuming man helped me through some of my most challenging moments of
healing on this path of embodied awakening, and joyfully celebrated my triumphs
and rapidly growing skills as a mystic and healer. He also reminded me that the
gifts were not the point of the path, only its rewards. Though I had been doing
Reiki for 20 years and had been a Reiki Master for nearly 15, what I was opening
into and as made all of my previous experience pale in comparison. Little did
I know for what I was being prepared… yet another new beginning.
Stepping into mastery… a new beginning, again.
One morning, I had the distinct feeling that I was now ready. Though I had all
of these skills in Reiki and natural intuitive gifts, I had never before felt
ready to be a healer, a teacher. Now this feeling of rest had come over me, like
I had finally reached a long sought after goal. It was after this that my “friends” paid
me a visit. These highly evolved Beings told me that I am to work with the leaders-
those people who feel called to spiritual leadership of some kind. That I would
be working with those who felt ready to “break trail for their people”,
choosing the path of awakening with the conscious understanding that they were
doing it for themselves, for their families and indeed for all of humanity. I
accepted the invitation and was “graduated” by Ken. All along the
journey, he would share with me my calibration, using Dr. David R. Hawkins’ (Power
vs. Force) Calibrated Scale of Consciousness and kinesiology. We could tell
by my calibration how well I was doing and what my next challenges would be.
My calibration and intuition told me that I could now begin to share some of
the insights and gifts of this soul’s journey.
Ken and I did not know at the time that we were birthing a “new” teaching
and way of walking the path to the highest levels of enlightenment- he as the
guide and me as the guinea pig...uh student. Now still in its infancy, we are
each guiding and healing souls on their path of remembering and enlightenment.
The work is taking on a decidedly heart-centered approach for me and I am excited
to see where it is leading me and my clients as I continue to grow with and through
it. Through the grace of spirit, I have had the honor of supporting and guiding
multiple souls through the sweet and blissful moments of heart-centered awakening
and continue to support them through the sorting of ego debris and healing of
old soul wounds still in their energy fields. Sometimes people come just because
they want to feel less pain or to heal some aspect of their journey. Some clients
come every week, some every other week and others as they feel the need for extra
support. You can take it at your own pace.
The work involves many techniques including: clairvoyance, past life regression,
intuitive counseling, hypnotherapy, meditation, energy psychology, subtle energy
healing, sound healing, ancient ritual practices and soul clearing and recovery.
A typical session usually lasts 1-1.5 hours and includes some hands-on energy
work, as it provides high energy healing frequencies that can remove blockages
and it feels good to boot. People often say that they leave feeling “buzzed”.
And, since the work is non-local, I can work on someone anywhere on the planet
and beyond.
Now
at Essential Touch
1103-B Peveto
Houston, Texas 77019
In Houston, I am now seeing clients at Alan Davidson’s lovely Midtown
space. Come and experience this beautiful and evolving work for yourself. Call
me directly at 713.866.4002 or email: mkd@profoundharvest.com for
more information or to schedule an appointment. It would be my honor to support
you on your journey.
Sessions are $125, with a sliding scale available. Mention this article when
you come in and receive a $20 discount for the month of March.
“I have advanced by leaps and bounds on my path
because of you. Thank you.”
- Tammy H., Houston, TX
“You are an amazing force for good, clarity,
healing & love.”
- Kate T., Seattle, WA
Marla Durden is a natural and sensitive intuitive, healer and spiritual guide
who is trained in and has mastery of various energetic, spiritual and shamanic
traditions. Knowing well the challenges, joys and complexities of the spiritual
journey, she is adept at nurturing healing and awakening. She
brings experience as the co-founder and former CEO of a successful cosmetics
company, as a marketing consultant and as an executive board member of an international
women’s organization. Widely traveled, Marla has an understanding of and
compassion for the universal human condition and the journey that we all share.
She is committed to the conscious awakening of humanity.
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